There are 38 weeks left in the year and once a
week I will write about someone in my life that is inspiring or motivating to
me. Hopefully others will read it and
gain a little bit of inspiration in their life as well. There is no particular order to these
writings, just a bunch of people I am fortunate enough to know. So without further ado ….
Inspirational
person #13 of 50 – Jim Wise
Jim Wise is my older brother.
Jim in the middle |
To be around Jim is to be constantly laughing
and entertained. He has a very outgoing
personality and is usually the center of attention whenever we have a family
get together. He can take an everyday, ordinary
story and turn it into a standup comedy routine. He is one of those people you just like to be
around because you know something funny or memorable will happen.
Our family has always been into all kinds of
motorsports and Jim was no different.
While I was more into the go-kart type racing he was more into motorcycles. I can remember watching both of my brothers
at a young age riding around our farm on their motorbikes and wanting to follow
their footsteps in some fashion.
Eventually Jim would drag race Harley Davidson’s and win several races
and trophies.
As I got into high school and more into team
sports, Jim would often show up and be one of my biggest fans. I didn’t tell him at the time but it really
meant a lot to see him take time from his busy schedule to travel to one of my
games or meets.
At a young age he began working construction
and has worked his way up the ranks through his company for the past 30+
years. He is an extremely hard working
and dedicated professional and his fingerprints are on building projects all
over state of Ohio and city of Cincinnati.
I imagine when he retires he will have a great sense of pride in all
that he has accomplished in his work life.
More about Jim below but first …
I asked Jim
seven questions, here are his responses …
Question 1: What advice I would
I give the 15-year-old version of yourself?
Jim: 1) Listen to your parents they know what is best for you! 2) Be
careful on who you pick as friends because they can have a big influence on
some of the decisions you might chose to make. 3) Do not let people influence
you to make bad decisions 4) Stay in school, go to college so you don’t have to
work manual labor (Like I have for 30 years).
Question 2: If money was no option, what
would you do for the rest of your life?
Jim: I would spend the
money helping the less fortunate, so they could have a better life. I would
also make sure that my mother could go anywhere and have anything that her
heart desired even though she could do that on her own. But Hey, I love my mom!
I would also provide the money to build the world’s largest dog shelter and pay
the staff a good wage to run / operate it. Then my wife and I could then travel
the world helping people, and rescuing dogs.
Question 3: What is your
favorite non-work thing to do?
Jim: After 30 years of
hard work my favorite thing to do is take it easy, besides that I like to
travel to Florida when I’m off in the winter to spend time with my mother and
wonderful family Debbie, Rocky, John and Colton!
Question 4: If your life was a
movie, what would the title be and who would play you?
Jim: The Wild Adventures
of Jimmy Wise. I would pick Evel Knievel to play me.
Question 5: What one thing
would you change about society?
Jim: I would like to change
how society judges people when they don’t know the whole story or have walked
in that person’s shoes.
Question 6: Who inspires you
and why?
Jim: My younger brother
John Wise. From a young age, John exceled at anything he did. He started racing
go go-karts, and became the Jeff Gordon of go-kart racing winning many races.
As you might already know many of the kids he raced against went on to become
NASCAR and IndyCar drivers. My Brother went on to win the 1992 400m state
championship in the state of Ohio. He then went to Kent State University on a
track scholarship where he graduated with a degree in business management. John
was also named to the all-Mid-American Conference team as a sprinter in
1997-1998. John also was part of the MAC Championship and the 4x100m relay
team. After college John joined the Kent State staff serving under current
Shockers coach Steve Rainbolt for five seasons. John later returned to Eastern
Brown for three seasons as the head coach and won the Conference Coach of the
Year five times in track and twice in cross country. John later moved to Kansas
to become a Track coach for the Wichita State Shockers and in 2011, he was
promoted to Assistant Director of Track and Field that goes along with his
coaching and recruiting roles. My brother is someone who loves what he does for
a living. He goes to work every day and does what he loves. John could have any
job he chooses, yet he loves coaching and teaching these young adults how to
become better athletes and outstanding young adults. Therefore, he inspires me!
I’m so proud to call him my brother! When people ask me who he is I love to
tell them this story. I’m so proud of you John!
Question 7: What makes you
laugh?
Jim: Facebook! Funnier
than Monty Python and Benny Hill!
Final
thoughts … Why is Jim Wise inspirational to me?
I’m realizing it’s impossible to accurately describe
Jim on paper. If you really want to know
about Jim, you have to experience being with and around him.
But what I can definitely say with all
sincerity is that Jim has one of the biggest hearts a human being was ever
given. You can read some of that above
in his answers but something that isn’t mentioned is how he took in our nephew
Colton and, along with his wife Debbie, has helped raise him into young adulthood. This wasn’t something Jim signed up for but
it was a responsibility he took as seriously as anything he’s ever done in
life.
Our nephew Colton is now in college and one of
the smartest young people you could ever meet.
While Jim may not have gone to college or earned a master’s degree, he
is a graduate of the school of hard knocks and made sure Colton had everything
he needed to start a successful life of his own. I’m not sure I could’ve done the same thing
as Jim and Debbie because I’m probably much too selfish with my own life. We’re all lucky to have people like Jim in
our world.
You don’t choose your siblings. Sometimes your brother or sister is the
closest person to you in your life and sometimes it doesn’t work out that way. I think my relationship with my brother Jimmy
has had a little bit of everything and I feel extremely lucky for that. Life isn’t perfect and neither are all the
people in it. Jim has made mistakes like
all of us have, but unlike some people he has never blamed anyone else for his
lot in life and has always continued to strive and work hard to make it better
for him and the people around him.
Sometimes we are inspired by professional athletes, leaders in the
business world or successful academic types but more often than not there are
people like my brother Jim who does the real heavy lifting in life so the rest
of us can live a little easier.
Thank you Jim for being a great example for
Colton and for being the best big brother a little spoiled punk like me could ever
have!